Let's talk about something that most of us indulge in behind closed doors but rarely talk about, or, understand how to explore to its full potential - yes, we're talking mindful masturbation!
Mindful masturbation (MM) is not your usual "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" routine. It's all about taking a step back from the autopilot mode and really immersing yourself in the experience. Picture it as a sensual rendezvous with your body, mind, and emotions - it's an intimate dance that promises to heighten your pleasure game and lead you to bigger, better, and more mind-blowing orgasms! 🔥
Now, before we embark on this pleasure journey, let's clarify what we mean by being "mindful." It's not about racing to the finish line or ticking off an agenda; it's about being present in the moment. You want to feel every touch, every breath, and every sensation as if for the first time.
First things first, make sure to allocate some quality time for your MM session. If you're time-poor or fitting this in between tasks it can be helpful to set a timer or an alarm so you can fully relax knowing you've got that boundary. Alternatively, try and do this in the evenings when you have nothing else planned so you can take your time and go for as long as you like.
Alright, now let's delve into the nitty-gritty of how to make your MM experience one for the books. We've got some sexy somatic tools up our sleeve that will keep you in the moment and out of your head.
Slow, deep belly breaths are your secret weapon. Breathe in for a count of 4 and out for 5, and imagine that breath flowing all the way down to your pelvic bowl. This magical move brings extra blood flow to your nether regions, which equals more pleasure. Trust us; it's like unlocking a treasure trove down there!
Shake that booty, rock those hips, and move sensually. Try slow thrusts, circle your hips seductively - let your body sway to the rhythm of pleasure. You're not only a master of your domain but also a master of the dance floor!
Embrace your inner diva and make some noise! Ahh, mmm, uugghh - any sound that feels good to you is fair game. And guess what? Even a loud, satisfying exhale can create a delightful vibration in your body. So let loose, baby!
Concentrate on what you're feeling, where the sensations are, and how you're touching yourself. Focus on your breath, your body's movements, or even the music playing in the background. You're creating your own pleasure symphony.
Set the stage with a juicy intention at the beginning of your session. Whether it's moving slowly, exploring yourself deeply, or simply feeling more relaxed, it sets the tone for your sensual adventure.
Now comes the fun part...
And we're not just talking about your genitals here, explore your entire body - every inch deserves attention! Experiment with different touches, pressures, and movements. From barely-there caresses to passionate pulsing, it's all about finding what gets you going!
Finally, as you near the end of your MM session, take a moment to reflect. Close your eyes, place your hand on your heart and genitals, and take three deep breaths. What did you enjoy the most? Is there something you'd like to try differently next time? This self-reflection is like the icing on the cake - it helps you learn more about yourself and what truly makes you tick.
Happy exploring, and may your orgasms be abundant AF 😉