Holistic Sex Coaching

Empowering you to move beyond your blocks so that you can awaken into your most liberated sexual self in the bedroom and in life. This holistic support will meet you where you’re at right now and give you the confidence to create change within yourself and intimate relationships.

There is so much more to great sex than just the physical act of ‘doing it.’

Holistic sex is about bringing a mind-body integrated approach to sex.

It's about inviting your mental, emotional, spiritual and physical self into your sexual experiences so that you can have juicy, satisfying and fulfilling experiences with yourself and others. Zooming out and looking at your whole self will highlight where you are shutting down, holding shame and blocking your pleasure.

Taking a holistic approach to sex and intimacy is a dynamic, proven and powerful approach. 

When you are connected to your sexuality, you're connected to life.


This is for you if you...

  • Are ready to ditch limiting beliefs and shame stories that are keeping you stuck and feeling blocked

  • Want to cultivate a strong mind-body connection so that you can stay present in your body (rather than in your head)

  • Want to feel confident embodying your own sensual essence as a woman so that you can be more self-expressed in the bedroom

  • Want to ignite a sacred relationship to your pussy so that you can experience all the bliss and ecstasy she has to offer

  • Want to feel safe to fully surrender during sex and experience mind-blowing orgasms

  • ​Feel like you don't know where to start and you need a roadmap to come back to your intimate self ​

    Our Work Together

    This space is like no other. It is heart to heart co-creating the richest vision for your future sexually liberated and embodied self.​

    Whether you want to feel sexually empowered, free to express your voice or deeply connected to your body, we will explore what's alive for you and move together. We will dream, shift, go big and elevate…together. 

    I am not here to ‘fix’ you (you are not broken). I am here to lovingly take you to your edge, move you out of your comfort zone and show you what is truly possible.


    Some topics we cover

    • Connection - developing a deeper connection to your heart, womb, pussy and sexual self
    • Embodiment - cultivating more awareness in your body so that you can move energy, emotions, triggers and blocks
    • Orgasm - giving you the tools to reclaim your orgasm, master your pleasure and expand your awareness
    • Empowerment - using your voice to communicate your needs, boundaries, desires, wants
    • Education - giving you lifelong embodiment practices and skills to use in everyday life
    • Healing - healing stress, numbness and disconnection to your vagina, pelvic bowl and body

    “I felt completely disconnected from my femininity, from my sexuality and from the feeling of confidence. I felt like there was something wrong with my body. With my pussy and with my sex drive. Having that kind of support has helped me step past the fear. To be proud of my body. Of who I am and what it means to be a woman in her full expression."

    — Sophie | NZ

    “Meeting my empowered self was SUCH a powerful revelation. As I think you know, she’s changed my life! I’ve worked with coaches before, but the embodiment practices Melissa guided me through were like nothing I had experienced before. They were so impactful and have led me on a journey I could never have predicted.”

    — B.T | NZ

    “Working with Melissa the past 7 months has been nothing short of life-changing! I never fully understood the power of a coach until our work began. She guided me to unpack, process and integrate so much of my inner work to an even deeper level than I could have done on my own.”

    — Jenn | CANADA

    "Working with Melissa was completely transformative. She opened me up and softened me into parts that had been so hidden and dark due to my own and generational trauma. I felt supported, seen and heard throughout the whole process."

    — Akika | AUSTRALIA

    1:1 Coaching Packages

    1:1 Holistic Sex Coaching with Melissa is currently full. Spots will be opening May/June 2023 join the waitlist here.