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Where numbness ends
and full-body
turn on begins.
For women who are D.O.N.E with numb nights, shut-down bodies, and average orgasms, ready to break the cycle of silent shame, low libido, and going through the motions.
A year-long, body-led reclamation where sexual aliveness is your norm, turn-on is your superpower, and unshakeable confidence is your baseline.
At the core of Sex School is the Best Sex of Your Life Blueprint™ - a deeply embodied, nervous system-led framework that ignites your sexual desire, brings you home to your erotic body, and unlocks multi-orgasmic states (for good).
You used to feel turned on.
But now? Sex feels like another thing on your to-do list, and you’re tired of faking it.
You secretly wonder, “Is something wrong with me?”
But deep down, you KNOW there’s a part of you that aches for more.
More connection. More turn-on. More aliveness. More excitement.
Maybe you tell yourself…
“It’s just low libido or my hormones.”
“I’m too busy. Too tired.”
“Maybe I’m just not a sexual person anymore.”
You’ve read the spicy books, bought the latest toys, slipped on the lingerie, maybe even had a one-off sexy night. But the next day?
It’s all back in the bottom drawer, collecting dust along with your desire.
Or you get that glimpse of hot turn-on during ovulation, or after a glass of vino…
But the next week? Sex feels like a chore. You’re numb. Disconnected. Wondering if you’re broken.
Here’s the raw and honest truth my love,
You were never broken.
You were just conditioned to disconnect from your body.
To perform instead of feel.
To stay small to be “easy to love.”
To make sex about duty, not desire.
To keep the peace even when it cost you your aliveness.
You keep searching for quick fixes that feel good for a night…
But the root cause runs deeper….
Unprocessed shame. Nervous system shutdown.
A lifetime of not knowing what actually turns you ON.
You don’t need to be “fixed.”
You need a full-body, heart-opening return to your sexual aliveness, your power, your body and your turn-on.
If you’re done with “one-off hot sex” and ready for that to be your new normal…
It’s time for Sex School.
Let’s normalise having a thriving sex life, feeling confident in our bodies and turned TF ON, rather than secretly dissatisfied and drowning in shame.
Your desires aren’t too much.
Your needs aren’t negotiable.
And they won’t disappear by sweeping them under the rug.
It’s time to get honest about what’s not working, come back into your body and learn the tools that will *actually* move the stagnant energy…
…so you can experience deeper connection, juicy AF pleasure and multiple orgasms! HELL YES!!
Pleasure is a skill you can learn.
But if you don’t learn the HOW, nothing’s going to change.
Here’s what I’ve seen after coaching 100’s of women back to sexual vitality.
When I ask women, “What turns you on?”
The most common answer I hear is…“I don’t know.”
So many women feel disconnected from their sensuality.
From their bodies. From their turn-on.
Why? Because for too long, we’ve been taught to prioritise everyone else and put our needs last.
Sex becomes another place where his pleasure comes first and yours? Optional.
And the more disconnected you feel, the harder it is to want it let alone enjoy it.
We were never taught how to access our turn-on.
We were taught condoms and bananas, not pleasure.
Not desire.
Not how to feel safe in your body.
Not how to ask for what you want.
So of course you feel stuck. Of course you feel lost.
But that changes NOW.
Because my mission isn’t just to teach you how to have the best sex of your goddam life…
But to guide you back to yourself - your sexual aliveness, your pleasure, your confidence, your desire.
THAT’S your new norm!
Introducing
A 12-month, body-led reclamation of your turn-on, confidence, and pleasure.
It’s everything you should’ve been taught about pleasure, confidence, and turn-on, but without the shame, fluff, or pressure.
Forget “spice it up” checklists or surface-level advice.
This is a body-led, pleasure-fueled, nervous-system-safe roadmap that brings you all the way home to deep, authentic turn-on, unshakable confidence, and earth-shattering O’s.
You’ll get the exact somatic tools, pleasure practices, and holistic sex education I’ve used to help hundreds of women go from “I guess that was fine” sex to “HOLY SH*T, what the F just happened?!”
The heart of Sex School:
The Best Sex of Your Life Blueprint.
Here’s what your new norm looks like inside Sex School:
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You’ll learn how to:
Reconnect with your body using somatic tools that dissolve stress and build rock-solid trust so you can actually feeeeeel again, not just think about it.
Discover your unique desires - yes, there’s more than one kind - and finally stop wondering “why don’t I want it?”
Explore your deep turn-ons and ignite YOUR sensual blueprint - so you start craving sex again.
Break up with the shame and silence that kept you small because you’re done letting old stories run the show now.
Create self-pleasure and sex rituals that anchor you back into YOU, not just checking a box, but truly awakening your body’s appetite for sex again.
Imagine stepping out of the shower, catching a glimpse of yourself in the mirror, and actually feeling a pulse of aliveness running through your whole body - no self-judgment, just a humming beneath your skin that brings back your cheeky, flirty self.
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You’ll learn how to:
Speak up about what you want (and what you don’t), no more silent frustration or hoping your partner can read your mind.
Set sexy, sacred boundaries that make you feel safe and powerful.
Share your desires, fantasies, and feedback without awkwardness, shutdown, or overthinking.
Let your authentic self be fully expressed in the bedroom - the moaning, the touching, the cumming!
Bring back the playful, naughty and flirty energy into your sex life so the flow feels effortless and the pleasure is at MAX volume.
You’re guiding your lover, telling them exactly how to touch you. You feel them tense, lean in, eyes wide with excitement…as your body melts, quivers, and surrenders under their hands.
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You’ll learn how to:
Master the art of erotic touch - giving and receiving - so you don’t just go through the motions, you actually get LIT UP from head to toe by specific touch.
Understand your pleasure anatomy - clitoral, vaginal, cervical, the whole glorious map - so you can unlock new orgasms and pleasure pathways.
Regulate your nervous system so turn-on is always available (not juuust during ovulation).
Play with orgasm control, surrender, and multi-orgasmic states.
Bring all of this into your everyday life, so great sex is your freakin baseline.
Imagine waking up electric. - your skin alive, your body humming with energy, desire simmering before your day even begins. You reach for your partner (or yourself), tuned into exactly what your body wants and claim for desire for hot morning sex.
This is the sex education you wish you’d gotten….a full-body reclamation of your sexuality, erotic power, pleasure, and confidence.
This is NOT some boring ass, clinical “sex-ed” program.
It’s a return to the most electric, erotic and empowered versions of yourself.
You’re not here to learn another sex position.
You’re here to feeeeeel again - deeply, erotically, confidently.
The Best Sex of Your Life Blueprint™ doesn’t just promise change.
It shows you how to embody a version of yourself who doesn’t just “have sex”, she radiates turn-on, leads with confidence, and lives embodied, every.single.day!
Are you ready to blow the ceiling off what you thought was possible?
What women are experiencing inside Sex School
When you join Sex School you’ll get:
Everything inside Sex School is designed to meet you where you are, and take you exactly where you want to go. You’re not just getting information, it’s an invitation to your most SEXUALLY ALIVE era yet!
✔️ All-Access Pleasure Vault (12 Months)
Unlimited, on-demand access to deep-dive masterclasses, expert interviews, sex tip videos, and pleasure practices so you never feel lost, alone, or stuck on repeat. There’s always a next step and a sisterhood beside you.
✔️Best Sex of Your Life Blueprint™
Your step-by-step, body-led pathway for awakening desire, sexual confidence, and orgasmic aliveness, no matter how numb, disconnected, or “too far gone” you feel now.
✔️ Live Monthly Sex Coaching Calls
Join me (and a real AF circle of women) every first Wednesday of the month for live coaching, Q&A, and breakthrough explorations on topics you won’t find on Google. Bring your questions, blocks, and breakthroughs - never navigate this alone.
✔️ Deep-Dive Masterclasses on Pleasure, Desire, and Orgasm
Pour a vino and sink into powerful teachings on orgasms, libido, pleasure, self-connection, and beyond, giving you real tools (and real talk) to go deeper every month.
✔️ Short & Spicy Sex Tip Videos
Think YouTube, but uncensored and spicy AF! Get practical tools you can instantly use, so you’re never mid-thrust thinking…“Am I doing this right?”
✔️ Exclusive Guest Expert Interviews
Access a curated vault of global experts, therapists, and sexologists so you can expand your toolbox, explore new perspectives, and find what truly works for you.
✔️ Pleasure Playground: Guided Audios & Embodiment Practices
Plug in, press play, and drop into your body even on the busiest, most depleted days. Soften tension, let go of shame, and unlock deep pleasure within minutes (no need to “wait for the mood”).
✔️ Swipeable Scripts & Sexy Templates
Never feel lost for words again. Access ready-to-use scripts and prompts to help you ask for what you want, set boundaries, and spark new conversations without awkwardness or overthinking.
Your investment in a juicy, orgasmic year
You get everything inside Sex School - live coaching, the full Pleasure Vault, guest experts, swipeable scripts, and support for a full 12 months.
PAY IN FULL
$697 NZD
3x PAYMENTS
$255 NZD
6x PAYMENTS
$127 NZD
ANONYMOUS (NZ)
“I have experienced the best orgasms because of my learnings from SS, and my relationship with my man is better and stronger than.”
SAM (AUS)
“Prior to Sex School, solo or with someone, there was almost always trauma, pressure, rushing and disconnection to myself….
I still can't believe the energy shift I feel. I feel like I am embodying an authentic version of me and loving her completely.”
Expert Interviews: The Sexpert Vault
Inside the Sexpert Vault, you get direct access to leading sexologists, coaches, therapists, and psychologists from around the globe sharing their wisdom on every topic you wish you’d learned (and plenty you never knew you needed).
Just a taste of what you’ll explore inside:
Men’s pleasure & masculine/feminine polarity
Squirting, anal, BDSM & kink (with zero shame)
Sex and motherhood, parenthood, and hormonal shifts
Trauma, healing, and nervous system wisdom
Libido, play parties, pleasure anatomy and so much more
These are the honest, REAL conversations you won’t find on Instagram or TikTok.
Because the best sex of your life comes from real education, honest answers, and women who refuse to settle.
Caitlin Dunsford
Women’s Pelvic Floor Physio
Cam Fraser
Mens Sexologist, Coach and Masculinity Educator
Rosie Rees
Sexual Wellness CEO & Relationship Coach
Chris Cheers
Psychologist
Tamica Wilder
Somatic Sex Therapy, 'The Orgasmic Mama'
Michelle Cliffe
Menopause Care
Bonnie Bliss
Somatic Sexologist & Holistic Sex Educator
Tully O’Connor
Relationship Coach
Madelene Kadziela
Intimacy & Sensuality Curator
Frey Graf
Yoni Mapping Therapist & Holistic Sex Coach
Meet your mentor
I felt so much shame for even being curious…
Nine years ago, I walked into my first-ever sexuality workshop in the jungle of Ubud, Bali sh*t scared but hungry for more.
The room was filled with women from all walks of life, each there to explore something we were never taught: the power of our sensual bodies, our pleasure, our erotic nature.
That day cracked my world wide open. I spent hours in practices and honest conversations I didn’t even know existed. But underneath the excitement, I had to face something confronting:
I was completely disconnected from my own body.
I’d spent years performing, pretending, faking pleasure, always in my head and never truly feeling.
But when I started using holistic and somatic tools, everything changed.
I experienced more pleasure and confidence in the bedroom than I thought was possible. Sex went from “surface-level” to a deep, full-body, heart-expanding experience.
And the ripple effect? It changed everything for me. This work didn’t just transform my relationships - it brought me wholeness during years of being single, helped me call in my soulmate, and brought me back to my body after the birth of my son.
This work - reclaiming your pleasure, your aliveness, your sexuality - is some of the most powerful and life-changing work you’ll ever do.
And I’m so honoured to walk this journey beside you.
All my love,
Mel xx
Certified Holistic Sex Coach & Somatic Practitioner
KENDALL (NZ)
“My libido had disappeared, and my relationship was struggling because of it. NOW I feel not just like I’ve got it all back… but i feel even more connected to myself and my sexuality than before!!”
KAT
“Such a great course to make you feel in touch with yourself again. Really empowers you to be you and your wild self.”
ANONYMOUS (NZ)
“I have grown from strength to strength and blossomed both in the bedroom, with my partner, and within myself.”
What if it really is possible for you?
Maybe you’ve wondered if your sex life is just… as good as it gets.
Maybe you feel so out of touch with your body, you don’t even know where to start or if it’s even worth trying again.
Maybe you’ve convinced yourself: “I’m just not a sexual woman.”
Maybe faking it feels easier than admitting how lost, numb, or disconnected you really feel.
But here’s what I know to be the truth in my bones because I’ve seen it, again and again:
Everything changes when you stop settling, stop pretending, and finally choose yourself.
Sex School isn’t just another program.
It’s a portal, a homecoming, to the sexually free, alive, confident, expressed woman.
Here’s what’s possible for you:
You can unleash your wild, magnetic, untamed self in the bedroom even if you’ve spent years holding back.
You can feel a pulse of aliveness and turn-on running through your body even if you’ve been “dead down there” for as long as you can remember.
You can absolutely reach those “is this real life?” orgasmic states even if right now you can barely feel a tingle, or don’t know where to start.
This is what happens when you stop settling for “fine” and start living for full-body F YES.
Your desire isn’t gone. It’s waiting for you. And so am I ;)
Sex School is where you finally remember that this is possible for YOU TOO!
Tour Sex School
Your investment in a juicy, orgasmic year
You get everything inside Sex School - live coaching, the full Pleasure Vault, guest experts, swipeable scripts, and support for a full 12 months.
PAY IN FULL
$697 NZD
3x PAYMENTS
$255 NZD
6x PAYMENTS
$127 NZD
Frequently Asked Questions
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You’re not alone. Most women join Sex School feeling exactly this way! This is a private, shame-free space where you can go at your own pace. You choose what you share, when you share, and how deep you go. Every step is met with compassion, privacy, and zero judgment.
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Loss of desire is incredibly common and it is absolutely not permanent. The Best Sex of Your Life Blueprint™ is designed for women who feel numb, shut down, or disconnected. With gentle, proven, body-first tools, you’ll find yourself reconnecting even if it’s been years.
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100%. Sex School is about your relationship with yourself first. As you awaken your own pleasure and confidence, your energy changes and that creates a ripple effect in your partnership. (And yes, plenty of women have seen partners shift, too, just from doing this work for themselves.)
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Both! You get 12 months of access to all content and the community so you can go entirely at your own pace. Plus, join live monthly coaching calls for real-time support, connection, and guidance.
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You have a 12-month access pass to all the content current and new stuff that gets uploaded throughout the year. When your 12-months is up, we’ll ask if you want to renew and you can either stick around or head off out into the wild.
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Your privacy is sacred here. The community is private, and only members can see what’s shared. You choose your level of participation. No one outside the program will ever know you’re inside unless you want to share your wins!
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Most programs skim the surface with “tips and tricks.” Sex School goes deeper….trauma-aware, body-led, and rooted in real nervous-system healing. This is about lasting shifts and transformations.
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Zero pressure! You have a full year to revisit every training, join live calls when you can, and take things at your own pace. Support and community are here whenever you’re ready.
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I’m here for you! Email admin@melissavranjes.com or DM me on Instagram —ask anything. You deserve to feel safe and supported in every step.
Wanna quick tease…?
Of course you do!!
Here’s just a taste of what’s waiting for you inside Sex School:
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BJ Like a Boss
Orgasms Pt1. & Pt2.
Sexual Communication
How to 'KINK' properly
Igniting The Fire (Solo)
Igniting The Fire (Couples)
Internal Orgasm Techniques
Initiating, Foreplay, Good Sex
Sexual Desire
Libido
Turn on
Understanding Sexual Healing
Tools & Practices for Sexual Healing
And that’s just the beginning!
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Pleasuring Men with Sexologist, Cam Fraser
Painful Sex with Holistic Sex Coach, Freya Graf
Oragams, Penetrative Sex & Cosmic Orgasmic States with Somatic Sexologist, Bonnie Bliss
Sex & Motherhood with Sexologist & The Orgasmic Mama, Tamica Wilder
How to Squirt with Sexual Wellness CEO, Owner of Pleasure Palace, Rosie Rees
Sexual Pain, Postpartum Sex with Women’s Pelvic Floor Physio, Caitlin Dunsford
Entering High-Class Sex Parties with Intimacy and Sensuality Curator, Madelene Kadziela
Moving through sexual trauma with Psychologist, Chris Cheers
Thriving relationships in parenthood with Relationship Coach, Tully O’Connor
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G-spot O’s
Cervical O’s
How to buy sex toys
Sexual fantasies
How to ass spank
Edging 101
4 Steps to becoming multi-orgasmic
Getting out of your head whilst receiving head
5 ways to mix up missionary
5 best positions for females
How to orgasm from penetration
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Pussy Worship Practice
Cock Worship Practice
Breast Massage Practice
Orgasmic Breathwork
Kink Exploration (Couples)
Internal O Self-Pleasure Practice
Breast MassageHip Activations
Vulva Massage
Sensual Meditation
Erotic Dance
Pleasure Mapping Practice
Exploration of The Vulva
Yoni Massage Tutorial
Mindful Masturbation Practice